Paradise in Trouble

Dear Blogonia,

I have been happily married to my husband for more than 10 years. We have had our ups and downs, but all in all, it’s been wonderful. The problem I’ve run into lately is that I don’t feel attracted to him anymore. Not just physically (we’ve both put on a few), but mentally and emotionally. He’s gone through some rough patches, and they have all taken a toll on his personality. Some times he's very selfish, abrasive or just downright mean. How can I get him back to being the wonderful man I fell in love with?

Signed,
Where’s my Eden?

Dear Eden,

It sounds like hubby may need some counseling to get past the issues he’s gone through. If he’s not up for that just talk to him when you see the negative side come out. If he’s being selfish, take something from him, when he’s abrasive, be extra kind and gentle and when he’s mean cuss him out real good and let him know you’re not having it. And sex. Give him lots of sex. Men like sex. Sex make men happy.

In other words, when he’s having a bad day, try to make it a good one.

Blogonia